Couple : Are Your Partner Is Yours?~

Nowadays, many boys and girls like to be in a relationship that called COUPLE. It becomes a trend where even a Primary School student as early as Standard Six began coupling. I didn't care about how or why they make out this kind of relationship, just what am I concerned is how they treated their couple partner. I've seen too many statuses at my Facebook that related with how they treat their partner. Those who are okay with their relationship, I'm fine with it. But when it comes to the problematic relationship, I can't take my eyes of it. Sometimes I've felt really irritated and angry when some boys or girl fight over their relationship. I know that they owned their Facebook account, but what they posted on Facebook will become public and anyone around the world could see it! Doesn't they felt ashamed??

One of the main reason of their fighting is JEALOUSY. One question to be asked here, do you think that your couple partner is yours? Do you think that when you couple with some boy or girl, that's make them yours, FOREVER? The answer is no, right? You just being in a relationship with them, not bought them into your life! So why you want to control their life by limiting their connection with other peoples because of jealousy? Yeah, I know what is your answer. Jealousy is a way to show that you do care to your partner. Guess what, YOU'RE TOTALLY WRONG! If you do care, you should understand them, accompany them, believing them and at most, make them happy being with you.

I've seen some statuses at Facebook that some boys or girls angry because another people came to seduced or interrupting their partner and relationship. Okay, here is how it works. If your partner REALLY loves you, she or he would ignore or deal with them accordingly. No need to be angry or insulting them on your Facebook like they would read it. It's your friends who read it and thus making other people angry by reading it. If you don't like them, don't be a coward that just can type an insulting status. Why don't you go to see that people and deal with them yourself? But for me, you should not be angry, because your partner aren't yours yet! Why would you guys fight over a person that wouldn't sure to be married with you? What a stupid things to do!

Some of you also had been limiting your couple partner life by preventing them to be friend with some people, preventing them from doing what they used to do, denying them to make something they want to do and so on. One question here, why do you do that for? They aren't yours yet, so why bother to control what they want to do in their life? Do you know what relationship means? Here is the meaning :-

Respect

Easy going

Love

Admire

Tender

Inspire

Open minded

Natural

Steady

Helpful

Indulge

Partner

Do you see any CONTROL word in the meaning above? So DON'T CONTROL your partner! Let them do whatever they want to do. If they do really love you, they should know what to do to make you happy. Being in a relationship is a happiest thing, not a sad thing. Just being single if you can't be happy in a relationship. That's more better.

P/S : Too busy lately, so I couldn't post blog frequently like before, sorry.